I Only Accepted His Ring Because I Didn’t Want To Disgrace Him In Public – Jety Speaks On Failed Engagement With E-sure
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Imo based blogger Jety has finally opened up on the reason behind her failed marriage to Hot OAP, Esure in 2015.
Esure was just a friend. A friend in whom i had no attatchment to until he shockingly popped the big Question which left me speechless that i slumped.lol!
On january 2015, Esure who was just a friend at that moment, invited me to a Birthday party which i took my younger brother along. At some point, i was asked to go get something with my girlfriends. When i got back, i was shocked to see him wearing a different Cloth which has “WILL YOU MARRY ME” boldly written on it. I felt it was a joke until he knelt down, with a ring on his hand, he asked me to marry him.
Friends, Families, Colleagues, Exes where all at this moment screaming; Say Yes, Say Yes, Say Yes. I told my brother I wasn’t ready for marriage and to settle down with E-Sure. I call my brother Craft Wizzy ‘Boo Boo’ and I said “Boo Boo I am not ready to settle with this guy. I’ve never thought or imagined marrying this guy. He is a good guy but I’ve not thought of marrying him”
My brother was like, he is kneeling own already and there were lots of people there. Saying no to a guy in public is like an insult. It took me time before I collected the ring and in tears, I dragged E-Sure up and did not accept the ring.
When people started chanting ‘Say yes! Say yes!’ that was when I accepted the ring.
It was when I accepted the ring that it dawned on me that this guy wants to marry me; I didn’t know how to say no or walk away, so I decided to make everything work. I wanted to make whatever he felt for me work out well between us.
Mind you, this is someone i had absolutely nothing with. Infact, Prior to his birthday, a Malaysian based guy tried to engage me in December 2014 but I turned him down and maybe out of fear and jealousy, he thought I was going to leave so in January 2015 he Popped up the Big Question out of nowhere. I couldn’t believe my eyes but at the same time, i didn’t want to disgrace him in public so i obliged. Every other relationship I had with him was built on that engagement.
E-Sure being my friend knew my weak point. He knew there was no way I could get anyone hurt in public so he took advantage of that.
9 months later, We were supposed to get married on October 24, 2015 but all through the way I thought it through and i walked out on the engagement on September 19, 2015.
Though I don’t have any regrets but I grew up and realized that I really needed to take care of my life. Draw my life the way I wanted it to be. When I look back, I just know that I wasn’t ready to get married back then; I was still young.
Since 2015, I’ve been calm over this whole story. I’ve heard so many versions of the story but the one that says I caused it does not surprise me because I have heard it before but I did not cause it. I don’t want to say some things, it will be very unfair at the end of the day. Esure is a good guy but just not my kind of Man. Even if there happens to be a 2nd chance, i still wont accept him. I can marry any one else but not him.